Best BDSM Sex Positions

Best Sex Positions to Try

Welcome, dear readers, into the captivating world of BDSM - a realm where pleasure meets exploration and boundaries are pushed to unveil new heights of ecstasy. Today, we invite you to unlock the secrets of the best BDSM sex positions that will undoubtedly ignite your desires and leave you craving more.

The Submissive Chair

In the submissive chair position, the sub is seated comfortably with their hands and feet restrained to the chair. The Dominant now has full power and control over their sub. The Dominant can bask in the adoration and obedience of their submissive, while the submissive revels in their position of servitude and surrender.

With limbs restrained, your partner's senses are heightened as every touch, caress, or unexpected sensation builds up to an explosive peak of pleasure. Tease your sub by pleasuring them and pulling away before they orgasm. Then climb on top and have your way with them. Explore the world of ice cubes, using a feather tickler, wax play, or any other sensory element that entices your desires.

The Bent Over Position

For some good old-fashioned paddle spanking, the bent over position offers the perfect alignment. With the submissive bending over, presenting their rear end, the Dominant has unrestricted access for delivering delightful spanks, be they gentle or intense, depending on the desired level of sensation. 

In this position the dominant can also use anal sex toys like anal beads or vibrators to please and tease their submissive. For an additional level of fun - tie up your submissive hands and legs with bondage rope, handcuffs, bondage tape or a hogtie so they stay where you need them.

Spatchcock

Like a flattened roast chicken, position the submissive on their back, with limbs outstretched and restrained, giving the Dominant an ample canvas for carrying out their pleasure. This simple yet effective position allows for tantalizing access for sensory play, teasing, or impact play while keeping the submissive comfortably restrained.

Picture your partner arching their body, surrendering themselves to you. With their legs spread wide, their body exposed, and their hands restrained, they are at your mercy. Through gentle touches, feather strokes, or other sensory play techniques, you can create an arc of pleasure that leaves them begging for release.

To tie up your submissive, you can use hand and ankle restraints to attach to the bed frame, but if you don’t have a bed frame, we also stock under the bed restraints.

All Fours In the Air

For those embracing their submissive side, assume the position on your back with all fours restrained in the air, prepared to be under the complete control of your Dominant. Whether for spanking, flogging, or other forms of play, this position amplifies vulnerability and obedience. Feel the power dynamic sizzle as you eagerly await your Dominant's touch, fully surrendering to their desires.

To add an extra level of excitement, incorporate sensory deprivation by blindfolding the submissive. Waiting for their next command, every sensation is magnified, every touch electrifying. This position amplifies the anticipation and surrender, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the experience.

Aftercare Matters

As you embark on your BDSM journey, it's crucial to remember that aftercare plays an equally important role. After an intense scene, attend to each other's physical and emotional well-being, providing comfort, reassurance, and tending to any needs that arise. This nurturing phase strengthens the bond between partners and ensures a safe and satisfying experience.

Is BDSM For You?

If you’re curious about dipping your toe in the world of bondage and BDSM play, below are some of the main reasons why couples engage in BDSM relationships.

Embracing Power Dynamics

The delicate dance of dominance and submission is the beating heart of BDSM. Establishing power dynamics, consent, and communication are fundamental to any BDSM relationship. These positions showcase the exhilaration of power play and explore the depths of pleasure and submission.

Thrills of Impact Play

Impact play, consisting of spanking, flogging or whipping, is an exhilarating realm of BDSM that explores the sensual pleasures derived from physical sensations. These positions are ideal for indulging in the art of impact play while ensuring safety and consent.

Indulging in the Joy of Bondage

Bondage, an art form in its own right, serves as a gateway to uninhibited pleasure and trust-building. These positions combine restraints with other BDSM elements, offering boundless opportunities for blissful exploration.

Indulging in Sensual Delights

Sensory play and teasing reign supreme in BDSM, delivering intense moments of pleasure and heightened anticipation. These positions focus on various sensual strategies to arouse and entice, ensuring unforgettable experiences.

Embrace the Pleasures of BDSM

Now that you know the best BDSM sexual positions to try, we hope you choose to unleash your desires and embark on a journey of sexual discovery. Always remember, consent, communication, trust, and safety are the foundations of any BDSM encounter. Dare to explore, experiment safely, and discover the breathtaking pleasures that BDSM can bring when approached with respect and care.

*images from Cosmopolitan.