7 Ways Dildos Add To Your Sex Life

If things are a bit ho-hum in the bedroom of late or you just want to try something different, dildos are the answer! We stock the best dildos in Australia and we’re sure to have one (or plenty!) to get you going on your sexual journey. 

This humble sex toy packs a punch for such a little package and can add so much to your sex life. Indeed, records suggest dildos were used as far back as the Stone Age, with 28,000-year-old remnants having been found in Germany. So let’s consider this an oldie but an absolute goldie! 

Don’t be surprised if your pleasure levels go sky-high and you end up with a different dildo for every day of the week…. Join the club, you’re not alone! However, if this world is still new to you and you need a little convincing, here are some of the most obvious ways dildos can add to your sex life.

1 You’re more likely to orgasm with a dildo 

If coming is just as important to you as the journey getting there, then a dildo won’t disappoint. It’s not going to run out of steam or ejaculate prematurely, and when you’ve had your way it can keep on keeping on (and on and on)… It won’t tire out until you do! 

2 Getting to know yourself sexually 

Whether we’re talking dildos for women or dildos for men, these hand-held harbingers of pleasure help you get to know yourself. They really are a passport to a new frontier as you explore what turns you on and how! Karma Sutra has shown us that if we’re left to our own devices, there are literally hundreds of ways we can find pleasure, right? But if you add a dildo then your world explodes with so many options. The more paths you go down, the more enjoyment you discover. The more your knowledge and confidence grows. And that all plays a role in building out and understanding your sexual identity - the buttons that work best for you. 

3 A DIY dildo is always turned on 

Unlike partners, a DIY dildo is always turned on, or at least it can be with the flick of a switch! Consider it your way of serving up sexual pleasure on demand. Headaches, fatigue - there are no reasons not to have plenty of fun when a dildo is delivering the good times! It won’t make any excuses to roll over and go to sleep! 

4 You don’t need anyone to have fun in the sack 

A DIY dildo kit is a great idea if you don’t have a sexual partner to fulfil your needs and wants. Your sexual pleasure is literally in your hands (and you’re in the driving seat). This can be powerfully liberating. You decide exactly what you want, where you want it and how you want it. It’s also entirely up to you when to have fun. Even better, you don’t have to make any effort whatsoever. If you’re feeling horny, own it! Don’t worry about what you’re wearing, how you smell, the state of your hair or whether you’ve brushed your teeth! Just get down to the business of giving yourself a good time! 

5 Try a double-ended dildo for twice the fun 

Double-ended dildos are designed either for one person to experience twice the pleasure simultaneously (one end of the dildo enters the vagina whilst the other enters the anus), or for two people to experience sensations at the same time. So whatever angle you look at it, this is twice the amount of fun as far as we’re concerned. 

6 How big - or small - do you like it? 

You shouldn’t choose a book by its cover and you probably shouldn’t choose a partner for the size and shape of their package (although plenty of us have probably gone down that path once or twice - no judgment here!). If an appendage is too small or too large it can compromise your satisfaction or maybe even cause displeasure. A dildo can compensate! Whether you need narrow or wide dildos, every possible size, style, colour and feel is imaginable and there for the choosing. So if you find yourself needing a little more, or you want to go harder with a little less, turn to your faithful dildo for an extra helping hand. 

7 Play around 

As adults, we don’t play enough, right? Wrong, if you’ve got a dildo! It’s called a sex toy for good reason, as it’s just so much fun to experiment with, sensing new pleasures and trying out new ideas. Play is so good for our mental wellbeing - it really puts us in the present and lets us be emotionally free to have fun and relax. And we can all do with more moments like that! 

Lube up 

To really seal this sexual deal, you’ll want some quality lube. Personal lubricant intensifies pleasure and can take penetration from awkward to ah-mazing. But just remember, silicone dildos and silicone lube are not friends. No, siree. Over time silicone-based lube will compromise your new BFF, so instead, go for water lube, which is friendly to all kinds of sex toys.  

Remember to keep it clean 

No matter what you get up to, it’s important to stay safe. So be as dirty as you want in the bedroom - we’re all for it! - but remember to keep your dildo clean. If there’s more than one of you using it, then wipe it down and wash it before it is inserted from one into the other. If you don’t know the sexual history of the person or people with whom you’re playing, use a condom on the dildo. 

Wherever you are, we can send any dildo Australia-wide. If you place your order before 3 pm, we will dispatch the same day. If you’re in the Sydney metro area, we can even provide a 2hr or 4hr delivery service so you’re not lusting for long. And remember, no matter where you are located, all our deliveries come in discreet packaging.  

Contact us 

So, are you convinced that dildos can add plenty to your sex life? If you’ve any more questions or if you need specific advice, we’re here for you. Just send us an email via shop@pleasurechest.com.au or call us on 02 9212 6440 and let’s chat about the best dildos for you!