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Movember Pleasure: Pleasing Your P-Spot
Movember is about men's health, and when it comes to sexual wellness the prostate deserves a lot more attention than it gets.
Often called the P-spot, the prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland that sits just below the bladder and wraps around the top of the urethra. Its main job is making seminal fluid, which nourishes and carries sperm when you ejaculate.
The lesser-known secret? Massaging it can lead to powerful orgasms, sometimes without touching the penis at all. Plenty of people start exploring with their fingers, but a toy made for the job gives you better reach, the right angle and more consistent stimulation.
New to anal play? There's a prostate toy for every level. Start with a small butt plug and work your way up to more advanced shapes and vibrating options as you get comfortable.
One rule above all: use lube, and plenty of it. The body doesn't make its own down there, so a generous amount of water-based lube makes anal play safer, more comfortable and a lot more fun.
Start here: a plug training kit
Butt Stuff Slim Anal Plug Trainer Pack – $49
If you're new to anal play, go slowly. Your body can take larger sizes over time, but rushing can cause discomfort or injury. Start with the smallest plug, use plenty of water-based lube and listen to your body. Always choose a toy with a flared base so it can't slip inside.
This kit gives you four slim silicone plugs in gradual sizes, each with a tapered tip for easy insertion:
- Small: 26mm wide, 105mm long – perfect for first-timers
- Medium: 30mm wide, 115mm long – the next step up
- Large: 32mm wide, 125mm long – for building confidence
- Extra large: 38mm wide, 155mm long – for a fuller feeling
Your first prostate toy
Shots Simplicity Astor – Blue – $30
Once a plug feels comfortable, try a toy shaped for the prostate. The Astor is small and beginner-friendly, with a 7.5cm insertable length, a 30mm max width and a flexible shaft that finds the right angle. It has a ribbed tip, 10 vibration modes, a USB rechargeable battery and it's waterproof.
Inside and out
Winyi Alex Remote Control – Black – $71
Winyi is known for comfortable, pleasure-first prostate toys. The Alex has a beaded shaft for your prostate and a base that massages your perineum at the same time. It's compact (74mm insertable, 27mm wide), so it's easy to wear for longer. Hand the remote to a partner and let them choose from 10 vibration modes.
Vibration with a twist
b-Vibe 360 Plug With Remote – $213
Already a fan of vibration and after the next big thing in butt play? The b-Vibe 360 has a secret up its sleeve. Click through the remote for rumbly vibrations in the base and 6 speeds of 360-degree rotation in the head. Your prostate never had it so good, hands-free.
Let it do the work
Nexus Thrust Prostate Edition – $144
The Nexus Thrust does the thrusting for you, while vibrating and massaging your taint with a mini-thruster on the handle. Lie back, go hands-free and keep your hands for whatever else you fancy.
The top of the range
Lelo Hugo 2 App Control – Black – $240
Ever had trouble finding your P-spot? Hugo 2 lends a motorised hand, or two. This dual-motor prostate massager rumbles against your prostate inside and your perineum outside at the same time. Use the Lelo app to cycle through speeds and patterns, or hand the controls to a partner.
Explore the P-spot this Movember
This Movember, look after your health and treat yourself while you're at it. Browse plugs, beads, vibrators and more in our Prostate Massagers collection, and don't forget to stock up on water-based lube.
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