Everything You Need to Know about the Male G-Spot

Yes there’s a male g spot and it is also known as the prostate or p spot. If you’re brave enough to go looking for it, prostate stimulation can be very pleasurable, producing powerful, full-body orgasms. Best of all, it’s easy to locate.

Where is the Male G Spot?

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located just below the bladder. You can reach it both internally or externally, and both feel amazing. It all comes down to your comfort level, or your partners. 

  • Internally: to reach the p spot internally, lube up your finger and slide in the rectum about 2 inches, which should be knuckle deep if you have average length fingers. 
  • Externally: to satisfy the prostate externally, simply stimulate the perineum which is the landing strip of skin that runs between the anus and scrotum.

What Do I Need for a Prostate Massage

If you’re ready to experience a prostate orgasm, or give one to your partner, this is what you need:

  1. Lubricant: Anal lube is the most important element when it comes to anal play. We recommend choosing a silicone based lube like Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Silicone Anal Glide to prevent painful chafing or tearing.
  2. Barrier Protection: We recommend placing a condom or latex glove over your finger if penetration is on the menu. Why? Well, poop comes out the butt and where there’s poop, there’s bacteria.
  3. Anal Toys - sex toys aren’t mandatory, but they can definitely spice up prostate play. At Pleasure Chest, we have a huge range of male sex toys to stimulate the prostate. The use of a p spot massager, or prostate massager, is a healthy way to keep the prostate stimulated. The orgasm is usually much more intense with the use of male anal toys. We also have a range of butt plugs that are specifically shaped with prostate stimulation in mind.
  4. Wipes: We recommend freshening up before and after anal play. Buy alcohol free wipes to avoid irritation.

How do I Stimulate My Partners Prostate

If you're ready for some anal exploration, you need to get some clear consent before you go knocking at someone’s backdoor. Communicate open and honestly because their booty is their prerogative. 

Once you’ve been given the green light:

  • Use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub, stroke, or press the perineum.
  • Experiment with different sensations by trying different pressures and speeds to find what they like best.
  • Use your other hand to pleasure other parts of their body, like stroking their penis or gently squeezing their balls.
  • Encourage them to tell you what feels good and what they want more or less of.

When they’re ready for more:

  • Apply lube to your finger(s) and slowly insert your finger into their anus an inch or two in, and start moving your finger in an upward motion toward the front of their body.
  • Gently feel around to locate the prostate. It feels like a rounded bulb of tissue, similar to the tip of your nose.
  • Once you locate it, move your finger in a “come here” motion over and over against the prostate.
  • Again, ask them what feels good and how they want to be touched: Faster? Slower? More pressure?
  • If you’re both up for it, simultaneously stroking or sucking them off can really kick the pleasure up a notch or 10.

Remember, not everyone can stimulate the prostate, but gosh it’s fun to try. Relaxation is everything, so take it slow and start with massaging the outside of the anal opening first before beginning the journey towards the p-spot.


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