A Beginners Guide to Impact Play

Hello there! Welcome to the exciting world of impact play! If you've been curious about adding some sizzle to your sensual adventures, you've come to the right place. In this beginner's guide, we'll dive into the realm of impact play and show you how to unleash your desires while keeping safety and consent at the forefront. Get ready to explore pleasure in a whole new way!

What is Impact Play?

Impact play involves one partner delivering hits or impacts to the body of another for pleasure. Examples include spanking, slapping, hitting bdsm, punching, and flogging. It's a common practice in BDSM dynamics, particularly in dom/sub relationships where power exchange is a central element.

If you've ever engaged in consensual spanking and found pleasure in it, you've taken the first steps into the realm of impact play. Spanking often serves as an initial exploration before delving into more intricate forms of impact play, which encompasses a variety of activities. 

One appealing aspect of impact play is its accessibility. You don't necessarily need to purchase specialized equipment; hands or "pervertables" (household items repurposed for sexual play) like wooden spoons can serve the purpose. However, as you progress, you might explore dedicated impact play tools available at adult stores… that’s where Sydney’s best sex shop comes in - Pleasure Chest.

Preparing for Impact Play

Before jumping into the action, it's crucial to set the stage properly. This means establishing trust, open communication, and clear boundaries with your partner(s). Remember, consent is everything and enthusiastic permission is key.

Start by having an honest conversation with your partner about your desires, likes, and dislikes. Discuss any hard limits and establish a safe word that can be used if things get intense. And don't forget to check in with both your physical and emotional readiness. It's important for all parties involved to be in the right headspace.

Consent, consent, consent! We can't emphasize this enough. During impact play, active communication and enthusiastic consent should be at the forefront of every action. This means continuously checking in with your partner(s) and ensuring that everyone is comfortable with the intensity and activities involved.

And when the playtime is over, leave room for extensive debriefing and aftercare. Providing emotional support and reassurance post-play is just as important as the excitement that comes before it.

Impact Play Sex Toys

Now, let's talk about the toys! Impact play involves using various tools, such as paddles, floggers, and whips or canes, to enhance sensations. If you need any guidance, chat online with our sales team, or visit us in store at 705 George Street Haymarket Sydney NSW 2000 Australia.

Don't fret if you're on a budget - there are plenty of budget-friendly alternatives and even DIY options that can provide a satisfying experience. Once you have your tools, remember to keep them clean and well-maintained with a sex toy cleaner. Proper hygiene is essential, my friend!

Our Adult Toy Recommendations

Ready to turn up the heat in the bedroom? Well, lucky you've found Pleasure Chest, your ultimate go-to for all things impact play! We've got a wickedly awesome selection that will make your naughty desires come to life. So, without further ado, here are some jaw-dropping suggestions you should definitely consider:

Floggers

Ooh, baby! Pleasure Chest offers a whole range of floggers that'll tickle your fancy, whether you're a beginner or a pro. Get ready for a tantalizing mix of pleasure and pain that'll make your heart race!

 
SPORTSHEETS SAFFRON BRAIDED FLOGGER

SPORTSHEETS SAFFRON BRAIDED FLOGGER
$40

Each of this cat-o'-nine-tails faux leather flogger’s thick braided falls ends in a tip reminiscent of riding crops, landing nine perfectly stinging snaps anywhere on your willing partner’s flesh. 

SPORTSHEETS SEX AND MISCHIEF ENCHANTED FLOGGER

 

SPORTSHEETS SEX AND MISCHIEF ENCHANTED FLOGGER
$18 

Ignite desire with the Sportsheets Sex and Mischief Enchanted Flogger. Its velvety crimson tails softly caress your partner's skin, awakening their senses. With a secure handle and wrist loop, you have full control during passionate moments. Watch as each lash brings pleasure and leaves them craving more.

Paddle

Ready to paddle your way to pleasure town? Pleasure Chest has got your back with a variety of paddles that'll make your booty tingle in all the right ways. Feel the texture, embrace the sensation, and dive into pure ecstasy!

NS NOVELTIES BONDAGE COUTURE PADDLE - BLACK

NS NOVELTIES BONDAGE COUTURE PADDLE - BLACK
$30

Indulge your innermost desires with Bondage Couture from NS Novelties. Meticulously crafted from superior materials and featuring exquisite details, Bondage Couture is your ultimate accessory for the runway and the bedroom. All synthetic material and nickel free hardware.

PLAYFUL DIAMONDS THE ROYAL TEASE 3 PIECE FETISH KIT

PLAYFUL DIAMONDS THE ROYAL TEASE 3 PIECE FETISH KIT
$45

The Diamonds Royal Tease is perfect for those embarking on their first Dom/sub adventures! Soft, inviting and oh-so-easy to use, these Diamond patterned Blindfold, Paddle and Wrist Cuffs will allure your BDSM fantasies!


Whips

Want to take things up a notch? Pleasure Chest has an enticing selection of whips that'll add that extra sharp sting to your passion-filled play sessions. Brace yourself for some delicious intensity, my friend!

SPARTACUS 27.5 INCH WIDE TIP BAT CROP WHIP

SPARTACUS 27.5 INCH WIDE TIP BAT CROP WHIP
$52

Spartacus Leathers SM Tools Crops. Wide Tip Riding Crop by Spartacus is made out of firm rubber to deliver great spanking sensations. Designed to become a symbol of style in experienced hands.

S(A)X LEATHER STRAPPER

 

S(A)X LEATHER STRAPPER
$
104

The S(A)X Leather strapper is made from one piece of solid hide with a hand turned native Australian timber handle. The strapper is a quality item and a pleasure to use.

SPARTACUS RUBBERLINE 20 INCH STRAP WHIP

SPARTACUS RUBBERLINE 20 INCH STRAP WHIP
$96

This 20" Rubber Strap Whip by Spartacus is the perfect addition to any kinky bedroom fun! Made from high-quality, smooth rubber.

Canes

Looking to add a little twist to your playtime? Pleasure Chest has got just the thing! Their canes offer a unique sensation that'll leave you begging for more. With different materials and flexibility levels, you're sure to find the perfect fit for your comfort!

(A)X BLACK BEAUTY CANE

S(A)X BLACK BEAUTY CANE
$53

The Black Beauty Cane is the cane you always wanted! It is 80cm in length with a 10mm diameter. The Black Beauty Cane has a rubber coating and durable PVC handle with a ribbed grip. There is a leather loop through the handle for security.

SPARTACUS LEATHER WRAPPED CANE - RED

SPARTACUS LEATHER WRAPPED CANE - RED
$40

Give in to your naughty side: discover all the pleasurable sensations of leather. You'll find that nothing excites and satisfies like a high-quality Leather Wrapped Cane. Also available in Purple and Black.

But hey, always make sure to communicate openly with your partner, establish boundaries, and gain consent before diving into this wild world of pleasure. And guess what? Pleasure Chest's fab staff is always there to lend a helping hand! They'll provide expert advice and guidance, making sure your shopping experience is as delightful as can be. So go on and unleash your desires, my friend! Happy exploring and may your experiences be mind-blowingly sensational! 

Warming Up for Impact Play

Before entering the impact arena, it's essential to warm up the body and practice proper technique to ensure a pleasurable experience. Starting with teasing and sensory stimulation can help prepare the body and mind for what's to come. Give your partner(s) a taste of the anticipation and awaken their senses.

Keep in mind, some areas of the body are more sensitive or vulnerable to impact play than others. Take time to familiarize yourself with these areas and plan your strikes accordingly. Remember, it's all about pleasure, not pain!

And of course, safety first! Pay close attention to technique and strike with care to minimize the risk of injury. If any immediate safety concerns arise during play, don't hesitate to stop and seek medical attention if necessary.

Types of Impact Play

Now, onto the juicy stuff – exploring the world of impact play! There are countless variations and techniques you can experiment with to find what truly tickles your fancy. Spanking, flogging, caning – the options are as diverse as your desires. Vary the intensity, rhythm, and restraint levels to unleash your inner desires of pleasure and power. And if you're feeling extra adventurous, try incorporating role-play with our range of erotic apparel, sensory deprivation, like the use of blindfolds, or power dynamics toys, like a mouth gag, into your play sessions.

Remember, the goal is to explore and discover different sensations, not to inflict pain or discomfort. So, start slow and communicate throughout the experience to ensure everyone is enjoying themselves.

Aftercare Post Impact Play

Don't forget the most crucial part – aftercare! After an intense session of impact play, make sure to provide emotional support and care for your partner(s). Snuggle, cuddle, and create a safe space for them to talk about their experience.

Open and honest communication is key here. Share your thoughts, feelings, and any concerns that may have arisen during play. And remember, it's not just the body that needs nurturing; the mind and emotions require tender loving care too.


So there you have it – a beginners guide to the exciting world of impact play! By incorporating trust, consent, and clear communication, you can embark on a thrilling journey of sensual pleasure. Always prioritize safety, respect boundaries, and never forget the importance of aftercare.

So go forth, unleash your desires, and may your impact play experiences be filled with pleasure, enjoyment, and a touch of humor thrown in for good measure!


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