Fleshlight - Lifting The Lid

Welcome to one of our favourite topics here at Pleasure Chest, the oh-so-impressive Fleshlight. A discreet little package, man this packs a punch when it comes to giving an incredibly authentic sensation. Here we share everything we know and love about fleshlights. So buckle up and prepare to be intrigued, aroused and convinced that this is, without question, the next must-have on your male sex toy shopping list. Let’s take masturbating to a whole new galaxy! 


…Ahem, that’s right…. If you’ve come here looking for a torch, then you definitely need to go to the hardware store instead. Although, if you stay, we promise it’ll be way more fun! 


What is a fleshlight? 

Sometimes referred to as a flesh light or fleshlite, it’s the term we give to the most popular male sex toy of all time. And no wonder! It looks like a torch from the outside (hence the name) but is an imitation vagina, the idea being you insert the penis into the opening, and away you go. The inside is all deliciously soft layers, ridges and curves - just how you’d feel if you were entering a vagina IRL. 


What is the best fleshlight? 

The best fleshlight really does come down to personal preference. We’d be more than happy to chat to you and talk you through ideas in way more detail. But for now, why not go with the popular vote and check out what some of the best-selling fleshlights are?


What are fleshlights made from? 

We mentioned that feeling inside - it’s all thanks to Superskin™, developed to mimic real skin so convincingly, you could be forgiven for thinking that two are tangoing, not one. 


What does a fleshlight feel like? 


We probably can’t describe it any better than we already have… It feels as close to vaginal intercourse - minus the real vagina - as you can imagine, especially if you warm it up first. What’s really great is that you can select different fleshlights to provide bespoke, nuanced feelings. A little bit like a dildo, there is no such thing as one size fits all. 


Have you heard of Fleshlight Girls? These fleshlights are designed around real-life sexy celebrities. That’s right - forget fantasising. You’re one step closer to sex with the woman of your dreams. The only catch is that you’re not dreaming. Thank us later (when you remember your name). 


How to use a fleshlight? 

Masturbation shouldn’t come hard (well, except for the obvious bits), right? That’s another feather in the fleshlight’s cap - it’s so damn easy to have a great time. We recommend three easy steps: 


  • Warm up
  • As mentioned, run your new BFF under a warm-running tap or plunge it into a bowl of warm water. Keep it there for a minute or so as it absorbs the heat. Be sure not to add anything else to the water (more on this later, when we talk about cleaning & maintenance) 


  • Lube up
  • Use a good-quality, water-based personal lubricant. Definitely no-no to silicone lube. Massage it over your penis and around the opening of the fleshlight. 


  • Limber up 
  • You’re ready to go. Simply insert your penis through the opening and push down deep into the toy. And get ready for an amazing time. 


    Now, when it comes to masturbating with this beauty, you have plenty of options. DIY for sure. But you could take it to the shower (just be mindful not to run the household water tank down to empty. Trust us, it wouldn’t be hard…). Why not get your hands on a wall suction fleshlight holder so you can affix your toy to the wall and go to town. Depending on the type of fleshlight, choose between the most popular Fleshlight Shower Mount, the Mount Flight Adapter or the Mount Quick Shot Adapter.


    Another much-loved ‘accessory’ is the Top Dog Mount. Position the Fleshlight into this and go to town doggy-style. 


    This is a little bit like any sex toy - the more you use it, the more adventurous ways you find to pleasure yourself. So have fun, and be prepared to come like you’re a pro in a porno! 


    How to clean a fleshlight 

    We’re now just going to assume you’ve had a mega come and you’re on cloud nine. Once you recover, look after the friend who’s looked after you! OK, so at this point, there are a few more steps you need to take but trust us, it’s so worth it. Care for this baby and it’s going to pay you back in spades time and time (and time!) again. 


    1. Release the case caps 

    Remove the caps from either end and slide the sleeve out from the case. Now place the case in hot, soapy water, and just give it a good wash before rinsing. 


    1. Rinse the sleeve 

    It’s really important you don’t use anything but warm water on the sleeve. Flush 

    it with running water so you remove any other fluids. 


    And remember - don’t tuck it away in its hidey-hole (pardon the pun) until it’s completely dry. And on that note … 


    How to dry a fleshlight

    You can let it go commando and air dry in its own time, or apply a super-clean micro cloth and towel-pat it dry. Maybe a combination of both? You want to make sure it is drier than a dead dingo’s donger before you tuck it away for next time. Why? Because otherwise, that excess fluid will compromise the Superskin™’s elasticity. And nobody wants to compromise when it comes to feeling this good! 


    Contact us 

    Let’s talk fleshlights! Whatever question you have, we’ve probably heard it a thousand times before. So, don’t be a Shy Guy. Give us a call, drop us an email, and let’s get you a step closer to one of the best sexual discoveries of your life. Remember, if you want a fleshlight in Sydney, we can deliver within four, maybe even two hours of ordering. For a fleshlight in Australia, we can offer same-day dispatch provided you order before 3 pm. And remember, all our little pleasure treasures are wrapped up discreetly, so nobody knows your sexy secret (unless you want them to!).


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