How to Give a Blowjob

Why Give Your Partner a Blowjob?

Hey there! At Pleasure Chest, we believe that the key to the best blowjob lies in your motivation. The why behind it is just as important (if not more so) than the how. So, why give head? Well, hopefully, because it's a blast and you genuinely want to! Forget those societal norms that say blowjobs are an obligatory act, regardless of whether you enjoy it or not. Let's toss that script aside. If sucking dick isn't your thing, explore other ways to experience pleasure with your partner that make you feel good too.

A blowjob shouldn't feel like doing mundane tasks, like taking out the trash. The best blowjobs come from folks who are super stoked about giving them! To give an amazing BJ, be excited about diving into the realm of pleasure. And that, my friend, is the mentality you should bring to sucking dick.

Dick Anatomy 101

Understanding the ins and outs of the body part you're pleasuring is crucial. Let's start from the tip, shall we? The mushroom-like part at the very top is called the head or glans. This is where a ton of sensation is concentrated, and it's the focal point while sucking dick. This means you don't have to deepthroat to give a mind-blowing blowjob! If your gag reflex isn't your biggest fan, you don't have to go all the way down to stimulate most of the nerve endings. Hey, if you can handle about two inches, you've got plenty to work with!

Just below the head is the coronal ridge. It's super sensitive and loves the feeling of your finger, tongue, or lips caressing it. Next up, we've got the urethral hole, which we totally recommend stimulating with your tongue too.

Now, let's talk about foreskin. It's a flexible sleeve of skin that moves back and forth over the head. If the penis has been circumcised, the skin won't slide the same way, but the scar in that area is more sensitive to touch.

Lastly, let's not forget about the frenulum... (we'll leave you hanging on this one and save the excitement for later!)

Can You Get an STD from a Blowjob?

What about practising safe sex? Don't forget that you can actually catch STIs from oral sex! It's a topic that's often overlooked, so let's quickly go over some ways to protect ourselves from common infections. We strongly suggest using unlubricated or non-latex condoms for oral sex. They're the best because the taste of prepackaged lube or latex is not exactly pleasant in your mouth.

If you're not worried about someone ejaculating into the condom, make sure to pull it all the way down onto the penis, so the tip doesn't tickle your uvula and make you gag. Oh, and here's a tip: adding some lube to the inside of the condom can really amp up the sensation for the person wearing it.

Now, if wearing condoms isn't your cup of tea when giving blowjobs, you always have the option of getting tested! Time for some technique talk now.

How to Give a Good Blowjob

Before we get into that, we want to emphasise that these tips and tricks can work on both hard and soft penises. It's not like the nerves magically appear once someone is aroused. Sucking on a soft cock can be just as amazing and important, especially for those on oestrogen, trans women, and folks who don't always stay erect.

Can you guess what the first step to great technique is? Yep, you got it - communication! We're not mind readers, so it's crucial to talk it out and figure out what your partner likes and dislikes. Don't go pushing someone's head or roughly going at it without talking about it first! And please, have a conversation about finishing in advance. Being open and receptive to feedback is key in becoming an expert in the field of blowjob-giving.

Let's start with a little tease. Build up the anticipation for what your mouth is about to do to this lucky person's penis. Rub your face against their crotch over their clothes, so they can feel the warmth and pressure. And when you reach their underwear, try blowing some hot air. We really want to slowly wake up those nerve endings. Put your lips around the penis over the underwear, creating that almost-wet sensation.

Once the person is undressed, let's hold off on directly putting our mouths on their genitals. Instead, let's kiss and lick up their thighs, building up anticipation. When we're ready to make contact, let's not rush it by immediately going deep. Instead, let's start by kissing along the shaft towards the tip. And here comes the peak moment, the first lick, which is like something out of a porno. It's the ultimate move. While maintaining eye contact, slowly lick from the base to the top, and don't forget to smile when you reach the top. That first lick is a one-time opportunity, so make it unforgettable!

Let's not forget about keeping things wet. Wet blowjobs are the best, and if you need some help with getting your mouth wet, try out some flavoured lubes! We've tried and tested these options, and can confirm that they taste absolutely delicious.

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Let's talk about getting the job done, but in a more amusing and informal way. So, when it comes to making things nice and wet, you have some options. One of them is using Throat Spit, which is like a thicker version of regular spit. But where do you find this magical substance, you ask? Well, you can either go all finger-down-the-throat until you gag, or get your partner to do the honours for you! Yeah, I know, it sounds pretty wild, right?

How to Stimulate the Head of a Penis During Blowjobs

Now, let's move on to the main event – stimulating the head. First of all, you don't need to go full vacuum mode, okay? You can easily tire out your jaw with all that suction. So, feel free to just suck or keep your lips lightly closed around the goods. And remember, your tongue is a muscle! So, while you're doing your thing, it can go wild with side-to-side motions or full-on circular swirls. And who can forget the sexy sloppy sounds you can make by going in and out on the head? Oh, and don't be afraid to French kiss that frenulum!

Here's a hot tip for you – try a technique for about 10 to 15 seconds and see how your partner reacts. If they're not feeling it, time to switch things up. But if they're moaning and squirming with pleasure, then why not stick around for a bit longer, right?

Foreskin Stimulation

Now, let's not forget about that foreskin. There's so much fun to be had with it! You can pull it up over the head, letting it hang there like a little party hat, and then you can suck on it like it's candy. Now, here comes the real adventure – tongue-fucking that foreskin by sticking your tongue right in the center and going around in circles. It's like a deep dive into uncharted territory!

So, go ahead and have a blast experimenting with these techniques. Just remember to have fun, keep it casual, and always check in with your partner's reactions. Enjoy!

How to Stimulate the Shaft of a Penis During Blowjobs

Let's talk about some techniques to get that shaft feeling great. Just like with the head, you can experiment with different suction styles. However, the deeper you go down the shaft, the less suction matters. The real trick here is using your tongue to explore different movements along the shaft. And if your tongue gets tired, no worries! You can always switch things up by moving your head back and forth instead.

Now, here are some tips to really amp up the stimulation:

1. Roller Coaster Neck: Think of your mouth's roof as a theme park ride. By moving your head and neck in different directions, you'll hit the head of the shaft from various angles, creating mind-blowing sensations!
2. Stroke and Suck: This is a classic move that many people love. Remember, blowjobs don't have to be all about mouth stimulation. Use your hand as an extension of your mouth by keeping them together and going to town. You can even use your hand as a reference point, making sure you don't go too far down the shaft and trigger your gag reflex.
3. Stimulating the Balls:  it's important to communicate with your partner and start off gently. You can use your tongue to lick around the area or try pulling the balls downward to enhance the feeling. 
4. Taint Stimulation: Now, let's talk about the taint – this area can handle some pressure! The taint is where the shaft ends and becomes the root of the penis. You can give it a good sucking and licking, and if you're feeling adventurous, you can even add a vibrator for some extra fun. 
5. Penetration: Lastly, if you both agree, you can try adding some finger penetration for an unforgettable experience. And don't forget, adult sex toys can also be a great addition to spice things up even more!

So, have fun experimenting with these techniques and get ready to take your blowjob game to the next level!

Sex Toys and Blowjobs

Let's kick off our list of sex toys to use with blowjobs with a nifty vibrating wand. These bad boys work wonders in adding some extra excitement to the mix. For instance, instead of using your hand to finish off the side stroke, why not plop a wand in there for some buzzing action? Fair warning though, your mouth might just catch a case of the vibrations!

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	Introducing the Shots Vive Enora Wand Vibrator in a captivating shade of purple! This pleasure tool offers a versatile and thrilling experience with its double-ended design. Crafted from silky smooth silicone, it's luxurious, body-safe, and hypoallergenic. The ENORA is 100% waterproof and features a USB rechargeable battery for up to 70 minutes of playtime. With its whisper-quiet operation and intense speed modes, it guarantees ultimate satisfaction. Indulge in the sensuous world of the ENORA wand vibrator and let your desires run wild.
	Introducing the Le Wand Petite Rechargeable Wand Massager in Rose Gold! This sleek and stylish wand vibrator is a petite powerhouse, perfect for beginners and experienced users. With 10 vibration speeds and 6 patterns, it delivers personalized pleasure. Cordless, body-safe, and shower-friendly, it's ready for any adventure. Don't miss out on this amazing pleasure device!

Moving right along, we have the Fun Factory Volta. This little gem is used as a clitoral vibrator, but the split tongue design is begging  to wrap around a lucky cock. While you give the head some lip service, you can stroke away with this toy for double the pleasure!

Now, say hello to your blowjob buddy – the Fleshlight Quickshot Autumn Falls. Unlike regular Fleshlights, this male masturbator is compact and easy to handle. Just slide it onto the lower part of the shaft to reach those nooks and crannies that your mouth might miss.

Have a blast exploring these mind-blowing blowjob toys!

Choke On This - Deepthroating like a Champ

Get ready to master the art of deepthroating with some tips! The key to success? Practice, practice, and more practice! Start off slowly by placing your fingers flat against your tongue to avoid hitting your gag reflex. Then, gradually go deeper and see how far you can go without gagging. Don't worry if you do gag - it's part of the learning process. The goal here is to get comfortable with your gag reflex and learn the difference between a minor gag and a full-on vomit-inducing gag. Plus, the minor ones even give you some "throat spit"! With practice, you'll gag less and less over time! Oh, and if you're up for a challenge, you can even try practicing with dildos or phallic-shaped foods. Just make sure to start with ones that aren't too big, and once you've mastered the slow and steady motion, you can level up to more intense practice. Here are some toys we recommend for your training sessions:

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To make deepthroating easier, try laying on your back with your head hanging off a bed or table to keep your throat straight. And remember to breathe! The more you've got in your throat, the less space there is for air, so stagger your breathing. When the "equipment" is out or not very deep, take a nice big breath. When it's deeper in, hold your breath. Who needs air when you're enjoying the wonders of deepthroat?

So, to sum it all up, there you have it! Your ultimate guide to giving mind-blowing performances. We hope you're feeling hungry and ready to put these skills into action. And remember, with enthusiasm, open communication, and some practice, you'll be the blowjob pro in town.

If you have any questions about the adult toys we’ve recommended, email us at shop@pleasurechest.com.au, give us a call on: (02) 9212 6440, or visit us at 705 George Street, Haymarket NSW 2000.